Choosing a family law attorney is a significant decision, and most offer an initial consultation, often free or low-cost, that you can use to evaluate fit before committing.
Questions worth asking
- "How much of your practice is family law, and specifically divorce?"
- "What's your general approach: negotiation-focused, mediation, or are you comfortable litigating if needed?"
- "How do you typically communicate with clients, and how quickly can I expect responses?"
- "Can you give me a general sense of costs and how billing works?"
Look for board certification where it exists
Some states offer a formal board certification in family law, which requires additional experience and testing beyond a standard law license. Where available, it's a solid signal of focused expertise, though plenty of excellent attorneys practice without it.
Trust your read of the person, not just the credentials
You'll likely be working closely with this attorney during a stressful period. Someone who listens carefully, explains things clearly without jargon, and is honest about likely outcomes (rather than only telling you what you want to hear) tends to serve clients better than one who over-promises.
One attorney isn't always the final answer
It's reasonable to consult with more than one attorney before deciding, especially for a first divorce or a complex financial situation. Most attorneys understand this and won't be offended by it.
